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How Much Do You Experiment?
Hey it’s Chris,
Remember when I talked about experimenting?
I like to test and learn and grow. If I learn one thing new every day then I think I’m doing okay.
It’s when I stop learning that I get scared.
My grandfather knew a lot. He had an opinion about everything, and if you had done something, he had done it too, and somehow it was “more” than yours.
Not really a know it all, but close.
I had a nephew like that too.
I would make a joke, an obvious whopper, and he would say, “Actually…”
Anytime I hear the word “Actually-,” I stop listening because I know someone didn’t get my humor.
Usually I’m just kidding.
And since I read a lot, I try not to tell people “Actually-.”
Sometimes I forget. I don’t mean to be a know it all, but I like to share stories and when someone tells me something, if it sparks a memory, I want to tell them something too.
A fair exchange, right?
Unless it comes off as trying to one up them. Which I don’t mean to do, but the constant experimenting and learning means I have a lot to share.
It happened this weekend.
A dad at the ballgame talked about breaking his arm. He asked if I had ever broken a bone.
I have.
I broke my leg in three spots.
He fell off his bike.
I did mine jumping out of an airplane.
It was at a race I really wanted to do, and there was so much adrenaline in my system, I didn’t feel it.
I told them to duct tape my ankle…